CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS!

EVERYDAY IN THE WORD!

FRIDAY JULY 16, 2021.

SUBJECT: CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS!

Memory verse: “So it was, as soon as he came near the camp, that he saw the calf and the dancing. So Moses anger became hot, and he cast the tablets out of his hands and broke them at the foot of the mountain.” (Exodus 32 vs 19.) 

READ: Numbers 14 vs I - 4:

14:1: So all the congregation lifted up their voice, and cried; and the people wept that night.

14:2: And all the children of Israel complained against Moses and against Aaron, and the whole congregation said to them, “If only we had died in the land of Egypt!! Or if only we had died in this wilderness! 

14:3: Why has the LORD brought us to this land to fall by the sword, that our wives and our children should become victims? Would it not be better for us to return to Egypt? 

14:4: And they said one to another, “Let us select a leader and return to Egypt.

INTIMATION:

Emotion is a moving of the feelings, an agitation of the mind. It is any of the various phenomena of the mind, such as anger, joy, fear, depression, murmur or sorrow, associated also with physical symptoms. 

Uncontrolled emotions can lead you to sin, especially when expressed negatively. Emotions such as anger, worry, and losing your temper are very destructive. They reveal a lack of faith that God loves us and is in control. We should not worry, instead, we should trust in God, giving ourselves to Him for His use and safekeeping. When you dwell on your problems, you will become anxious and angry. But if you concentrate on God and His goodness, you will find peace.

Jesus taught us on the emotions of anger and worry (Matthew 5 vs 21 - 24; 6 vs 25 - 33), admonishing us to control them. He likened anger to killing which is a terrible sin. Anger can be against someone or something, when against someone, it is a seething, brooding bitterness against the person, and incidentally violates God’s command to love. It is a dangerous emotion that always threatens to leap out of control, leading to violence, emotional hurt, increased mental stress, and spiritual damage. Anger keeps us from developing a spirit pleasing to God. 

Jesus also admonished us against worrying apparently because of its ill effects on us. Worry may (1) damage your health, (2) disrupt your productivity, (3) negatively affect the way you treat others, (4) reduce your ability to trust in God, and (5) its inability to solve our problems. Jesus ironically asked, “Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?” (Matthew 6 vs 27.) Worrying about the future hampers your efforts for today, and worrying is more harmful than helpful.

Although, there is a place for righteous anger. For instance, in Exodus 32, when Moses, on descending from the mountain, where he had gone to receive God’s commandment on the tablets of Testimony, he saw the children of Israel worshiping and dancing around the gold calf they have made for themselves. He was overwhelmed by the actual sight of the blatant idolatry and revelry. Very angry he threw away the tablets at the foot of the mountain and broke them. Anger at sin is a sign of spiritual vitality, therefore, do not squelch this kind of anger. However, when you are justifiably angry at sin, still be careful not to do anything that you will regret later.

Again, Moses anger against the nagging, slandering, and rebelling children of Israel, made him to disobey God. Instead of speaking to the rock to bring out water, he struck the rock twice. Then the LORD spoke to Moses and Aaron, “Because you did not believe Me, to hallow Me in the eyes of the children of Israel, therefore you shall not bring this assembly into the land which I have given them.” Numbers 20 vs 11 - 12.) By striking the rock, Moses disobeyed God’s direct command in the presence of His people. And because of this great responsibility to the people as the leader and role model, he could not be let off lightly. Consequently, after all his travails from Egypt and in the wilderness, he did not enter the Promised Land. 

Now, let us look at Job emotional reaction when Satan incited God against him, and Satan was allowed to attack him. He lost all his possessions and children: “Then Job arose, tore his rob, and shaved his head; and he fell to the ground and worshipped. And said: “Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return there. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.” In all this Job did not sin nor charge God with wrong.” (Job 1 vs 20 - 22.)

Job did not hide his overwhelming grief. He had not lost his faith in God. Instead, his emotions showed that he was human and that he loved his family. God created our emotions, and it is not sinful or inappropriate to express them as Job did. If you have experienced a deep loss, a disappointment, or a heartbreak, admit your feelings to yourself and others, and grieve. 

Job had lost his possessions and family in this first of Satan’s tests, but he reacted rightly toward God by acknowledging God’s sovereign authority over everything God had given him. Job’s right reaction made him passed God’s test and proved that people can love God for who He is, not for what He gives.

In Job 7 vs 11, Job said, “Therefore I will not refrain my mouth; I will speak in the anguish of my spirit; I will complain in the bitterness of my soul.” He felt deep anguish and bitterness, and he spoke honestly to God about his feelings to let out his frustrations. If we express our feelings to God, we can deal with them without exploding in harsh words and actions, possibly hurting ourselves and others. We must never be afraid to reveal our true feelings to God. He understands and knows them. Be honest, and don’t try to hide anything from your Savior. He cares. 

The next time strong emotions threaten to overwhelm you, express them openly to God in prayer. This will help you gain an eternal perspective on the situation and give you greater ability to deal with it constructively.

Prayer: Abba Father, endue with the spirit of self-control, that in any circumstances, I will not react negatively out of emotions, in Jesus’ Name I have prayed. Amen.

PRAISE THE LORD!