EVERYDAY IN THE WORD!
SUNDAY DECEMBER 8, 2019.
SUBJECT: CHRISTIAN LOVE!
Memory verse:
"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another
." (John 13 vs 34.)
READ: First Corinthians 13 vs 1 - 8:
13:1: Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.
13:2: And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
13:3: And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.
13:4: Love suffers long and is kin; love does not envy, love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
13:5: does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
13:6: does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
13:7: bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
13:8: Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.
INTIMATION:
Christian love has God for its primary object, and expresses itself first in implicit obedience to His commandments (John 14 vs 15, 21). Self-will, that is, self-pleasing, is the negation of love to God. Christian love, whether exercised toward the brethren, or toward men generally, is not an impulse from the feelings, it does not always run with the natural inclinations, nor does it spend itself only upon those for whom some affinity is discovered. It is an unselfish love, ready to serve.
Love can be known only from the actions it prompts. For instance, God’s love is is seen in the gift of His Son; “In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.” (First John 4 vs 9 - 10.) But obviously this is not the love of complacency, or affection, that is, it was drawn out by any excellency in its objects (Romans 5 vs 8). It was an exercise of the Divine will in deliberate choice, made without assignable cause save that which lies in the nature of God Himself.
In respect of love as used for God, it expresses the deep and constant love and interest of a perfect Being towards entirely unworthy objects, producing and fostering a reverential love in them towards the Giver, and a practical love towards those who are partakers of the same, and a desire to help others to seek the Giver. Christian love seeks the welfare of all (Romans 15 vs 2), and works no ill to any (Romans 13 vs 8 - 10). It seeks opportunity to do good to ‘all men, and especially toward them that are of the household of faith,’ (Galatians 6 vs 10). Love had its perfect expression among men in the Lord Jesus Christ (Second Corinthians 5 vs 14; Ephesians 2 vs 4). Christian love is the fruit of the Spirit in the Christian (Galatians 5 vs 22).
Jesus says that if we truly love God and our neighbor, we will naturally keep the commandments. The best tact to deal with this is rather than worrying about all we should not do, we should concentrate on all we can do to show love for God and others. After learning to love God, learning to love others is the second purpose of your life.
We are often preoccupied with our own self, and act as if relationships are something to be squeezed into our schedule. We think always that we are doing others favor by loving them. But that is wrong, instead we are doing ourselves the favor of walking in the command of God to fulfill His law. We talk about finding time for our children or making time for people in our lives. That gives the impression that relationships are just part of our lives along with many other tasks. But God says relationships are what life is all about.
Relationships, not achievements or the acquisition of things, are what matters most in life. Now you know this, why will you allow relationships to get the short end of the stick? When our schedules become overloaded and overcrowded, we start skimming relationally, cutting back on giving the time, energy, and attention that loving relationships require. What is most important to God is displaced by what's urgent to you. Busyness is the greatest enemy to relationships. We become preoccupied with making a living, doing our work, paying bills, and accomplishing goals as if these tasks are the point of life. They are not. The point of life is learning to love—love God and people. Life minus love equals zero.
Our society confuses love and lust. Unlike lust, God’s kind of love is directed outward toward others, not inward toward ourselves. It is utterly unselfish. This kind of love goes against our natural inclinations. It is impossible to have this love unless God helps us set aside our own natural desires so that we can love and not expect anything in return.
Prayer: Abba Father, my utmost heart desire is to live a life hinged on Your greatest commandments—to love You and others. Endue me with the spirit of love, that I may be worthy to be called Your Son, in Jesus’ Name I prayed, Amen.
PRAISE THE LORD!