BE SLOW TO ANGER!

 EVERYDAY IN THE WORD!

WEDNESDAY NOVEMBER 16, 2022.

SUBJECT : BE SLOW TO ANGER!

Memory verse: "He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city." (Proverbs 16 vs 32.)

READ: Matthew 5 vs 21 - 24:

5:21: You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment:

5:22: But I say to you, That whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘Raca!’ shall be in danger of the council:. But whoever says, ‘You fool!’ shall be in danger of hell fire.

5:23: Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you,

5:24: leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.

 INTIMATION:

Anger is a strong emotion; a feeling that is oriented toward some real or supposed grievance. It’s a belligerence aroused by a real or supposed wrong (personified as one of the deadly sins). Anger is a powerful emotion. Often it may drive people to hurt others with words or physical violence. It is a dangerous emotion that always threatens to leap out of control, leading to violence, emotional hurt, increased mental stress, and spiritual damage. Anger can be like a fire out of control. It can burn everything and us in its path. Anger divides people. It pushes us into hasty decisions that only cause bitterness and guilt. 

Yet anger, in itself, is not wrong, especially when directed at sin and the mistreatment of others. It can be a legitimate reaction to injustice and sin. When you feel yourself getting angry, look for the cause. Are you reacting to an evil situation that you are going to set right? Or are you responding selfishly to a personal insult? Pray that God will help you control your anger, and channel legitimate anger into affective action for needed changes, and to conquer selfish anger through humility and repentance.

The Bible doesn’t tell us that we shouldn’t feel angry, but it points out that it is important to handle our anger properly. If vented thoughtlessly, anger can hurt others and destroy relationships. If bottled up inside, it can cause us to become bitter and destroy us from within. The Bible says we should deal with our anger immediately in a way that builds relationships rather than destroys them. If we nurse our anger, we will give the devil an opportunity to divide us. 

For instance, in First Samuel 11 vs 1 - 11, the Ammonites planned to humiliate the Israelites (the men of Jabesh) when they asked for a covenant with them to serve them. They accepted a covenant with the Israelites on the condition of putting out all the right eyes of the Israelites in order to bring reproach on all Israel. Saul was enraged and greatly angered by such demand from the Ammonites. His anger culminated in his organizing the Israelites for a war against the Ammonites and he conquered them. The Holy Spirit used Saul’s anger to bring justice and freedom. When injustice or sin makes you angry, ask God how you can channel that anger in constructive ways to help bring about a positive change.

The Scripture says, “The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, and his glory is to overlook a transgression.” (Proverbs 19 vs 11.) It’s glorious to control your emotions of anger. Self-control is superior to conquest. Success in business, school, or home life can be ruined by one who has lost control of his or her temper. So it is a great personal victory to control your temper. When you feel yourself ready to explode, remember that losing control may cause you to forfeit what you want the most.

Again, The apostle James says, “So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of a man does not produce the righteousness of God.” (James 1 vs 19 - 20.) His counsel is on anger that erupts when our ego is bruised. In such situations we hear such things as, “I am hurt;” “My opinions are not being heard.” However, when injustice and sin occur, we should become angry because others are being hurt. But we should not become angry when we fail to win an argument or when we feel offended or neglected. 

In the passage we read today, Jesus gave the similitude in the terrible sin of killing and anger. Both violate God’s command to love. Anger in this case refers to a seething, brooding bitterness against someone. Anger keeps us from developing a spirit pleasing to God. Have you ever been proud that you didn’t strike out and say what was really on your mind? Self-control is good, but Christ wants us to practice thought-control as well. Jesus said that we will be held accountable even for our attitudes.

It’s noteworthy that when you lose something of great value, or if others conspire against you and succeed, anger is the first and most natural reaction. But you can control your feelings by (1) recognizing your reaction for what it is, (2) praying for strength, and (3) asking God for help to see the opportunities that even your bad situation may provide. Jealous anger blinds us from seeing the benefits we have and makes us dwell on what we don’t have. 

Selfish anger never helps anybody. The Scripture says, “Do not hasten in your spirit to be angry, for anger rests in the bosom of fools.” (Ecclesiastes 7 vs 9.) Are you angry with someone right now? What can you do to resolve your differences? Don’t let the day end before you begin to work on mending your relationship. 

Prayer: Abba Father, engrace me with unction to function in the fruit of the Spirit at all times, in Jesus’ Name I have prayed. Amen.

PRAISE THE LORD!